Going back to school as an adult
As an adult, the thought of going back to school to earn a degree can be overwhelming. As we get older, it seems that we just continue to add responsibilities to our plate. Having bills to pay, jobs where the boss expects us to be accessible 24/7 and children to raise are just a few of the many demands that adults face every day. Sometimes the thought of committing to time both in and out of the classroom to earn a degree can be overwhelming. But if this is something that you truly want to achieve, you need to build yourself a support system to lean on when the going gets tough
First, I'd recommend identifying that person or people in your life who you know will support you no matter what, but who you also trust to be honest with you when needed . This could be a spouse or partner, family member, friend, mentor or boss. Let this person know about your dream of going back to school and earning your degree. It's said that making your goals public is one way to make them reality, so telling someone you trust about this desire can help you on your way. Be honest with this person about the fears you have of making this commitment. Let them know that you might need to some support and ask if you can reach out to them if things get hard.
If you do have a spouse or partner, let them know about your plans, even if you don't think they'll be entirely supportive as first. Be honest and open with why earning your degree is important to you and how you hope they'll help you make this dream a reality . Let them know how you anticipate this will change your everyday lives for the time being, whether it has to do with childcare responsibilities or simply the amount of free time you have to spend together. Be honest about how much you want this for yourself and how important it is for you. Personally, I've found that these type of discussions are difficult to have, but are so helpful in the long run. Your loved one may not truly realize how much you want this to happen, and might be more supportive than you think once they do.
You might be thinking that you don't have anyone you know to reach out to. Just because you can't think of someone, doesn't mean they're not out there. One of the beauties of social media is that there now are ways to reach out to the world for support even when it's not immediately available to you. Most college admission offices have a Facebook page; post your questions and concerns to get feedback and support from staff and other students going through the same process you are. Chances are you're not the only one with those questions out there. It's not uncommon anymore for people to form relationships through social media and there are so many ways to keep in touch once you find people you connect with. Even if you never meet in person, doesn't mean that these people can be any less supportive.
Support is out there for you if you're willing to reach out for it. If earning your degree is something that you truly want, there are ways to to connect with people who will have your back when the going gets rough.
Posted in Recreation and leisure Post Date 04/15/2017